Hi all, i need an advice please about my scorpio man, we were fine for almost 2 months and then i had a strange feeling he was dating someone else. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. "You are mine" is the message you'll receive when you're in your Scorpio man's lovin' arms. The trick is to trigger certain powerful emotions within him. As a Scorpio woman, I believe theres at least one more reason which is missing in that list: Scorpio Man wants to feel absolutely in control and indispensable. They might even play the victim card, so they can pull back from you, acting all hurt and devastated. That was a month ago. He lives a couple hours away from me and we talk enough but there are days when he doesn't. Now i know he is so powerful , he is so confidence . Though they love to be loved, theyd prefer the comfort of knowing they arent going to get hurt over the fear of being vulnerable any day. Why would a Scorpio push you away? Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. Well for about a year he has changed. He has slowly grown colder and further away. But now you're older and so confident in his loyalty that you constantly yank on his tail to show your friends how much he loves you. He will not tell me what is wrong. i read here the Scorpio guy said "Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain." Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. @Sho - their is no possible chance of getting him back. It felt so perfect..like I just stumbled upon a soulmate. We were great in the beginning and then slowly, he started to withdraw from me. I think we just do it meaning the love stuff because we love you so much but we get scared to tell you that because we don't know if you really love us too?? So I have. 2010 The Thought & Expression Company, LLC. I am not giving up on Him, not giving up on us. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. with my mother I learned to just nod and agree. The weird thing is that I'm on birth control so wtf just happened?! But then I apologized and he responded that he needed to think about all this and take a time out for that, so he thought about it for 3-4 days, then he called me and I didn't respond and he left a voicemail saying that we shouldn't see each other anymore. After all, the Bull is the 2nd sign of the zodiac and is thought to rule . I had my Life he had his own, all good. I refuse to take tesponsibikitu for HIS emotionaly irresponsibility. 1 Top 5 Reasons Why Scorpio Man Withdraws From You. This article will provide a crash course on your crush. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. You feel dissatisfied with your life as it is. Most of time we have different opinion. When your Scorpio partner is feeling shy or uncomfortable, they may use physical signals (like clenching their jaw or shrinking away from you) as ways of communicating with you. Answer (1 of 9): The Scorpio has made you think you are being ignored. 11 They're Aggressively Dominant. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): 1. I have deleted him now, I just want to know why do they disappear instead of fixing the problem when apparently its his fault that he messed up by going on date with someone else. For a few reasons, he may avoid staring you in the eye when he is guilty about something. The emotionally distant Scorpio is actually hiding their hurt feelings of rejection. The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. Just in more obvious and aggravating ways! He wrote back and we exchanged a few messages after that, but I am just so confused as to what is going on in that head of his. Given that the deeply emotional sign of Scorpio is associated with themes like . I am a sadge sun otherwise and not in the least clingy or demanding. If they keep asking, I either lash out because I want them to go away without explaining that I am upset or I pretend that I just don't feel well. I have even called him out on his silence. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. Though they are good at being social, a Scorpio would much rather have a deep conversation with people who pique their interest. Their rage is intense and packs a punch. I need Dr. Too much of us isn't good. I have been talking to a Scorpio man online for 4 years. We could stare into eachothers eyes and read each other maybe too well. That was only a month of knowing him. So now it's been a bit over 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him, but I have been emailing him all the time and I know everyone said that I should ignore him. It might seem like everything's fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you, leaving you feeling attacked for no reason. Rated all ups!! The only thing that you will do is push her further away, so you . Scorpio men employ various tests to assess a woman's self-image and confidence levels. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. When a Scorpio woman becomes distant, it is likely that the way she treats you will be extremely revealing, especially if you have chosen to ignore the signs that she had previously given you. Hi all, i m Scorpio woman n my partner is Scorpio too. So that brought back memories.. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. Certainly, you should be remorseful for intentionally hurting someone you love. We both have kids. Sarah, he might come back, depending if he loves you and realizes he made a mistake. Trying to hide their deep feelings and extreme sensitivity to avoid being humiliated or wounded. needless to say it is a long distance relationship on top of that we don't see each other as much as we would like to. I don't think he respects me. They don't believe in eye for an eye. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. All it comes down to is whether hes a nice guy and whether both of you treat each other right, if not then end the relationship and move on (irrespective of whether or not hes a Scorpio and whatever your sunsign is ) . There is nothing I don't love about this man. He wanted to see me then changed his mind.wth. He would say things like " you know i can't make you happy. At first, I was like omg what did I do wrong and then scorp man let it be known that everything is fine. That's how intense the Scorpio can be. Everything was good very attentive, nice and good listener he acted like everything was fine except for last Sunday something was off he was more irritated and sarcastic especially with his eyes and smirks. I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. If you do that, your scorp will notice with his freakish Empathic ways and it WILL make him want you way more! Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. I told him I didnt know because he hurt my feelings and I felt like he was playing games with me. Two weeks after the kiss, we continued to talk. I felt like it was out of nowhere. Virgos are often extremely cautious in love and will consider all odds before letting feelings arise towards someone. I'm going through the same crap. Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. He will frequently experience anxiety, which might result in uneasy . 1. Geminis are (ironically) the most straightforward when it comes to subconsciously pushing people away its usually just that they fear the pain of losing a friendship or a partner, and when that fear starts to overshadow them, they push people away. My point is, you may think it came out of nowhere, but he has been keeping track, and something tipped the scales. Why?? We never added each other on Facebook but only snapchat cause he likes snapchat a lot. Even i get scared of me. Self-esteem tests. After all we have been together for 2 and I a half but he is not receptive to my feelings. What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. Caps have a weird habit of selling themselves too short, and eventually they wake up and realize theyre not really happy and need to make some serious changes, beginning with the company they keep. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. First time he gave me the silent treatment I was a bit agitated with him because he kept calling me difficult and I got pissed and told him something mean like 'you better go back online and find an easy-going girl who had an easy life'. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. Learn why the Scorpio in your life is withdrawn and seems distant. Our Connection felt pretty strong like two Magnets something strange was happening. I go through the same thing when i don't receive a text for 1 day cause it's just such an extreme change from the normal..also don't want to be needy, but sometime i feel like i need to have more self respect, it's not okay to be coldishback and forth with extreme wow he really really loves and wants me to feelings of I really don't know how he feels at all??? He will not talk about it and shuts right down. Touch is a big way a Scorpio man expresses his love. Scorpio (October 24-November 22) . Scorpios are so hated due to their oppressive side. Getting comfortable with giving their partners room to make their own choices is a must. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. I've never commented on any article ever like this but I need advice before I approach him about this. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. I KNOW that he loves me - he told me he did two days ago in a phone call and then he didn't respond to my three texts today and I do that damn scales balancing act thing that I hate so much. Also, not saying all of you did this, just throwing it out there, but do not, do NOT sleep with him right away. Scorpio men who are in love want to hug you and hold you like you belong to them. But now I haven't heard from him for a week and a half and have no idea why. Well, a couple days ago, he texts me out of the blue "hey wife." I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 25, 2012: Thank you for your comments, angel115707! I'm very hurt and miss him so much! We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. Luv this hub. When a Scorpio man takes you in completely as in loving you you ultimately become their possession until you betray them. Anytime I come from a well meaning place they can get so defensive. Scorpio and Cancer interact on a highly intuitive and subjective level. Even sexual relationship is outstanding but emotionally not. Fear Hits Him Fast. why do scorpios attract narcissists. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. He has this Sunshine Smile, this happy Puppy Look. If he has decided to distance himself in preparation to leave you then he is making it easier for you. Here are four tips on how to get your Scorpio partner back into communication: 1) Try communicating through body language. Geminis often tend to be silent admirers, while Cancerians are guaranteed to put their point across if they have feeling for someone. A Virgo keeps their distance because they dont want to mess up a good thing, and they dont want to show their true colors the ones they fear are just a little too raw in the first place. We just dating, taking it slow. The Bug always tells me his Week Plans, work work work, shows up when promised at my Place always needs to go back home to his Dog. He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. It is so tough to leave him alone when he is in a funk but I hve 2 give him space or he will disappear. How much i showed my love to him , he got more silence . . I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). We were totally fine for a month, then he was at his friend's place and he was supposed to come to stay with me before going home but he got sick and he only texted me when he was already on the way home without even telling me he's thinking of not coming. So, I got so pissed because I was very hurt, thinking he didn't care about me and my feelings to let me know and make sure I'm ok. Of course I understand he was sick and needed to take care of himself but my problem was that he didn't tell me until he was already leaving. They arent wrong in this assumption the people you spend your time with have an irrevocable impact on your quality of life, and sometimes ensuring that you only keep the right ones around is essential. Where there is a will, a Scorpio will always find a way. but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. A few weeks ago we started talking again and admitted our feelings to each other. But if we want to be alone don't feel bad we just need our space. 5 Reasons Why a Scorpio Man Withdraws. But they are just too occupied to feel for others. He has no time to see me so I can't get answers. To all scorpio man out there, could you please explain why is it really hard for you to express your feelings with the one whom you feel somewhat special to you? And I can do this over a protracted period of time such as few years. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. "Dimming the lights once in a while just to sit and watch the sunset or taking a walk on . He's quite private though. Also do you think he will come back? My friends think I shouldn't expect a text every day, since he has things to do and so do I. I just guess I'm real needy right now. but what actually is he doing? Being in Love is wonderful. Make him WORK for you, if he wont then keep it moving as he will if it were you. He had helped me with some work stuff two weeks ago, but then told me how it stressed him out. Why do Scorpios push you away? What is this man saying? Leo has a fear of being rejected and will often push people away before they can do it first. I got into a heated argument with my scorpio and now things aren't the same anymore. The next morning he broke up with me via text. Empathy is a strength. Scorpios are Resourceful. Said we must become friends b4 lovers. Sorry to be so gruesome but if you cannot handle the heat stay out of the kitchen. This page really helped, Kris. On that note we weren't even a couple so I have no idea why he has taken it to heart or what's going on. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem.